Is the good girl in you running your life? Have you spent years being well-behaved, polished and compliant and now you're wondering - what for? What's the point of all this pretending?
I'd like to share with you a story. I once knew a young woman who tried hard to please everyone and do the right thing. She wanted to fit in and belong and was motivated by a deep need to be liked and to avoid conflict at all costs. She was exceptionally good at reading people, giving them what they needed and telling them what they wanted to hear.